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~かねる

cannot; find it hard to (polite refusal)

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How to form it

  • Verb (ます-stem) + かねる / かねます

Register: Formal; business and service

Explanation

A polite way of saying that you cannot do something, usually because of rules, position or reluctance.

Frequently used by staff declining a request. It sounds firmer and more polite than できない.

Examples

  1. 申し訳ありませんが、その件はお答えしかねます。

    もうしわけありませんが、そのけんはおこたえしかねます。

    I'm sorry, but I'm unable to answer that matter.

  2. その意見には賛成しかねる。

    そのいけんにはさんせいしかねる。

    I find it hard to agree with that opinion.

  3. 私の一存では決めかねます。

    わたしのいちぞんではきめかねます。

    I can't decide this on my own authority.

Compare with

  • ~かねない: かねない means 'might well (bad outcome)'; かねる means 'cannot'. They look alike but mean very different things.
  • ~ようがない: ようがない means no means exist; かねる implies a polite refusal.

Common mistakes

  • Mixing it up with かねない. It is the negative form of かねる in shape, but it means 'might well', not 'can'.